A very very small bit of the Wesley Maye story.
As written by me after only chatting to this incredible man yesterday for an hour in-front of his building.
Not all that he told me I will post about because something are just too special and keeping them in your heart is where they should and will stay.
Wes, like me loves a chat and collecting people to talk too.
I just can't do justice in this post to this amazing mans life thus far, but to share with you just a brief few lines that he openly shared with me yesterday.
After chatting for some time about the weather, leaves on the pavement ect … I asked him what was his heritage as I like to do, he paused, smiled and said proudly to me he was born in Mississippi. Wow was my response and I chatted about me learning how to spell Mississippi way back in my childhood.
Wes told me he was born into a very large family because back in his day that was how families survived, the bigger the family the more opportunities and food that could be bought into the household.
Listening to him talking about his time growing up was a glimpse into someone’s world that I never thought I would be lucky enough to ever get to hear about first hand. He told me how times back then were tough and rough, very tough and very rough and left a lot unsaid as he knew I should instinctually understand. Somethings just don't need to be talked about to know about!
He move to San Francisco in 1964 after he had done national service and here he made his life as a press photographer, involved in the movie industry and a cable car driver and now a building supervisor. One thing that he shared with me was that one day long ago on that cable car some people were wondering where he was from and they were thinking because of his accent the he was from New York. When he told them he was from Mississippi they scoffed and said that he was a smart ass. I looked at him confused by his comment and he said that back then if you were from the deep south and talked with a more northern accent you were labeled as trying to be above your station in life.
Ouch I said and he smiled saying this was why I told you this story because I knew I could!
Wes thank you for letting me into your world and may we chat again someday.